Home Business Online Opportunity – Finding References for Success.
Our confidence, our belief, faith in ourselves and our ability to overcome adversity is rooted in our past experiences.
It also depends on what experiences we chose to use from the past at any given time. A person who is confident in one area of his/her life may not be confident in another.
This depends on what past references they use in each situation.
Our emotional state will also impact on which references our brain will chose. For example if we are in a fearful state, it will bring back memories of times in the past when we felt fear thus reinforcing the feelings of fear.
It is like when someone upsets us we tend to go back over all the times we have felt let down by that person thus magnifying what may not be otherwise a very significant upset.
But more importantly than our past experiences is our interpretation of them. Two people from similar backgrounds can create very different value systems from them.
For example someone from an abusive family can determine that he/she will never hurt another person as they have been hurt and indeed many of them set up support groups to help others who have been abused.
Others from a similar background go on to abuse others. Both types ironically will see their background as the foundation of what they became.
Likewise a person from a privileged background may not go on to achieve in life where a person from an under privileged background can use their experience to motivate themselves to study and improve their life.
It is vital to understand the importance of how our past experiences mould our beliefs and values when attempting to earn money form home with a home business online opportunity. Because it is our belief in our ability to succeed that will determine how well we do.
Our beliefs are also based on what we have heard from others, what we have seen and even what we have imagined we have experienced.
a belief is nothing but a feeling of certainty about what something means
Anthony Robbins
For example you may believe you are intelligent because you have a reference that proves this to you in a past experience. You may reference this belief consciously or subconsciously to a time you have succeeded in the past.
The key to success is to expand the references available to you. Remember they do not have to be something directly experienced in your own life.
Seek out experiences that expand your references of what you are capable of. References give us that feeling of certainty which is far more empowering than doubt and fear.
Our imagination is also a powerful tool in creating positive references.
Until Rodger Bannister, no-one thought is was possible to break the four minute mile. Yet he created his own certainty by visualising it over and over again. Once he created his own certainty he achieved it.
Also his achievement created a reference for others who subsequently went on to emulate him.
Much of what we take for granted today would not exist if someone had not dared to dream – to use their imagination and envisage creating something that did not exist.
Imagination is more important than knowledge
Albert Einstein
If we doubt our ability to be successful in a home business online opportunity then we will fear failure. And unfortunately the fear of failure is a major obstacle in getting started on the road to success.
To create many references of certainty, surround yourself with others who have achieved in an area that you wish to achieve in. And like those who followed Rodger Bannister, you too will have the certainty of success.
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