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Earn Money Form Home – How Controlling Your Emotions Will Help
There can be no transforming of darkness into light and of apathy into movement without emotion
Carl Jung
Many people live quiet flat lives, never quiet reaching the depths of despair but also never scaling the heights of achievement.
It is quiet sad really that so many never reach the potentials of their lives. They get stuck in the rut of daily routine with little passion in either their work or personal lives.
the mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation
Thoreau
Emotions are often brushed aside as irrelevant with intellect seen as superior.
However emotions are what move us to action. When we are happy, sad angry etc it leads us to a certain type of action.
The trick is therefore to become master of your emotions. Learn to change them at will.
Because negative emotions will lead to negative actions and thus failure.
Anthony Robbins identifies ten emotions of power which we should learn to cultivate.
1. Love and warmth
We all like to feel loved and have someone to love. It is the basis of all human relationships.
if you could only love enough, you could be the most powerful person in the world.
Emmet Fox
2. Appreciation and gratitude
Gratitude is a most powerful emotion. While you are feeling gratitude you will find it very hard to feel negative or bad.
3. Curiosity
We should never lose our curiosity for life. If we think we have nothing left to learn then life loses its meaning.
4. Excitement and passion
passion is the unbridled power to move our lives forward at a faster tempo than ever before.
Anthony Robbins.
Being passionate about what you do will produce amazing results.
Approach everything you do in life with passion and excitement.If you are passionate about your home business online opportunity then that passion will be felt by others.
5 Determination
To creating lasting value in life and a legacy to leave behind you need to have determination.
Being determined means you have ruled out all other possibilities. You are committed the the path that leads to your goals.
It is a willingness to do whatever it takes to be successful. It means conquering your fears and not letting them stand in your way.
6. Flexibility
You need to be flexible in order to change as circumstances dictate.
7. Confidence
The path to success depends on you feeling confident and not fearful.
Confidence is gained from having faith in your abilities.
People who are successful in their home business online opportunity have faith in their abilities and do not waste time fearing failure.
8. Cheerfulness
Being cheerful, like laughing is contagious. It creates happiness around you. It enhances your self esteem and makes the journey through life more fun.
Not being cheerful rarely makes a situation any better.
9. Vitality
If you are feeling tired all the time you will not have the energy to cultivate the positive emotions mentioned above.
You will more than likely succumb to negative emotions like anger and frustration.
It is important therefore to keep your body in peak physical condition.
Exercise daily, movement creates energy. If you have abundance of energy you will be better able to apply positive emotions to life’s situations.
10. Contribution
The secret to life is giving
Anthony Robbins
The true value of life I believe is what we can contribute to our fellow man, what difference we can make in the lives of others.
We are successful when we concentrate in providing value and helping others.
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Internet Marketing Promotion and the Power of Words
The liberty most of us enjoy today was won for us by our ancestors who chose words that inspired others to powerful acts that made the world a better place.
Such is the power of words.
They form our beliefs and also have the power to change our beliefs
Anthony Robbins, in his book Awaken the Giant Within tells us that most of us are unaware of our own power to use words to;
move ourselves emotionally, to challenge, embolden, and strengthen our spirits, to move ourselves to action, to seek greater riches from this gift we call life
To control and improve our lives we must ensure that the words we use habitually pull us towards where we wish to go and not where we wish to avoid.
Use positive words and avoid negative words.
For example instead if ‘I hate’ use ‘I would prefer’. Instead of telling your children, ‘don’t do that’, tell them what you want them to do. You are far more likely to get them to do it.
In his book ‘Remember The Ice’, Bob Nicoll tells the story of the shopkeeper who had difficulty selling his stocks of ice despite the fact it was 103 degrees and despite having placed a sign over the cash register saying, ‘Don’t Forget The Ice’.
Bob, on visiting his store changed the wording on the sign for him to read ‘Remember the Ice’.
The results were immediate and dramatic. The shopkeeper could not keep up with the demand.
It is important to remember that when wording an Internet marketing promotion to give positive and clear instructions.
Avoid words like can’t, don’t won’t. Use instead can, do, will.
Words can have the effect of making situations worse than they really are.
For example if you have a less than successful Internet marketing promotion. What you say to yourself will determine if you will go on to succeed in the future or not.
For example, if you say ‘This always happens to me’ or ‘I always fail’ or I will never get this to work’. Do you think this will lead to your next promotion being any different? Definitely not.
Try using more positive language when speaking to yourself. It will propel you towards future successes. The future is all that matters. The past cannot be changed – learn from it and move on.
We also adopt some of the emotional patterns of people we spend lots of time with by adopting some of their habitual vocabulary. Think of how you would benefit from hanging out with passionate, driven, confident, enthusiastic, creative and fascinating people.
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Home Business Online Opportunity – Are Questions the Key?
He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers
Cameroon Proverb
Most of what we do each day is actually asking and answering questions.
Questions direct our focus and how we think and feel. We should therefore look more closely at the questions we ask.
Successful people ask better questions and get the answers that empower them to produce the results they desire.
Life will give you what you ask of it. If you ask wrong questions, you will get a bad answer.
Our brain has an amazing capacity to provide us with information. We need to learn to use it correctly and ask it the right questions.
As I said our questions direct our focus. So if our questions are mainly along the lines of ‘why does things like this always happen to me’ ‘why am I never lucky’ ‘why me’? Then our focus will be the negative.
Good questions on the other hand bring us resources that will lead us to find answers and solutions.
Many people fail to earn money form home because they fail to commit to one home business online opportunity.
They keep looking thinking ‘what if there is an easier way to earn money form home’?. What if I don’t succeed?. These questions are disempowering and will ultimately lead to your online failure.
Instead, focus on your success and what steps you need to take to get you there. Ask yourself ‘what plan do I need to put in place to make this home business online opportunity work for me?’.
Even now in the midst of the worst financial crisis the world has ever experienced, many are actually becoming very wealthy. Why? Because they are asking different questions.
The masses are asking ‘how do I survive this crisis?’. The wealthy are asking ‘How can I use this crisis to make money?’
The latter question will focus your brain on finding solutions and if you persist with the question with a certainty of finding a plan you brain will eventually give you the answers.
We should continuously control the questions we ask ourselves, do not allow them to operate on autopilot.
Avoid presuppositions, where you assume that past failures will be repeated. For instance asking yourself ‘why do I always fail?’. You are setting yourself up for more of the same by focusing on it.
Ask yourself instead ‘what can I do differently to succeed the next time?’. Ask it with the confidence that you will succeed and your brain will come up with a plan.
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Earn Money Form Home – What Do You Really Want?
The difference between acting badly and failing and acting brilliantly and succeeding is not based on ability but rather on the state of our mind and/or body.
You may have massive ability but if your mind is continually in a negative state then you will never live life to your full potential.
We all have days where we feel unproductive. When everything we do seems to take longer than it should or simply does not get done.
However, Anthony Robbins in his book Awaken the Giant Within, advises us that “If you know the secret of accessing your most resourceful states, you can literally work wonders”
The state of mind you are in at any given time will determine your decisions and behavior.
Think of the power and ability you could put to work in your home business online opportunity if you could control your state of mind.
But the good news is – changing your state of mind is not that hard.
Changing the position of your body is one way. Slouching on your chair or walking around with shoulders hunched will more than likely lead to you feeling tired, not able to think and unproductive.
Sitting up straight, walking with shoulders straight, chin up looking upwards will all lead to a more positive outlook on life and thus make it far more likely that you will make positive decisions.
I had read recently about the trick of looking upwards. Do it as an experiment and see if it makes you feel better.
When I tried it first I was actually outside on a star lit night. Coincidence or what, I saw my first shooting star ever!!
Doing some exercise, even a short walk will leave you invigorated and ready to tackle anything.
Motion is a good motivator. Imagine the difference in your body response to walking slowly or being on a roller coaster. One will have you in a lazy frame of mind and the other will have your adrenalin pumping.
I am not suggesting you go on a roller coaster every day, it just illustrates the point that motion invigorates us.
Just smiling or laughing can impact hugely on your state of mind.
If you feel in any way depressed, make a conscious effort to laugh or even smile.
My four year old daughter has a very infectious laugh. Very little can set her off. But she instantly lifts the spirits of those around her and they cannot help but laugh despite not having a clue what they are laughing at.
Keep your focus on what you want to achieve, not what you are afraid of. We are told not to tell our children ‘don’t fall’. If you do they are far more likely to focus on falling not being successful.
The same can be said when you want to earn money form home. Focus on what you want to achieve and not your fears of failing. If you put all your focus on your fears then they will be realised.
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Earn Money Form Home – Are You Willing to Make the Change?
Many people struggle every day with the effort to change their lives in one way or another.
It may be to get fitter, healthier, have better relationships, to better their finances or indeed their life in general.
Many of us however find it very hard to make changes. We have habits that are very hard to break and willpower alone will not do it for us.
The beginning of a habit is like an invisible thread, but every time we repeat the act we strengthen the strand, add to it another filament, until it becomes a great cable and binds us irrevocably, thought and act.
—ORISON SWETT MARDEN
Habits are patterns of behavior learned since our childhood. When we are sad or happy, most of us have developed our own ways of making ourselves feel better or celebrating.
These are the patterns of behavior that we have linked with pleasure. It may be smoking, drinking, chocolate etc.
To change these habits we need to break the way we associate them with pleasure.
We must associate pain with the behavior we want to change and pleasure with the behavior we want to adopt.
In his book Awaken the Giant Within, Anthony Robbins, gives us six steps that will empower us to do this.
Decide what you Really Want and what’s Preventing you from Having it Now
Note: – it says “what you really want”. We are very good at saying what we do not want. But the first step to effecting change is to decide exactly what you do want. Be specific.
The second element of this step is to ask your self what is preventing you from having it now. What is preventing you from being successful with a home business online opportunity?
The main reason for most people is that they associate pain with change or the fear of the unknown because there are no cast iron guarantees with change.
We need to decide that things must change.
Make a concrete decision - I am going to change.For many they come to this decision when they reach a very low point in their lives – when not changing is more painful than any fear or pain associated with change.
Maybe the pain of going to work another day for a boss and living someone else’s dream, the pain of not having enough money left over for life’s little luxuries gets to the point that you decide you must change and find a way to earn money form home and create your own lifestyle.
So if you want to make that change and become successful with a home business online opportunity give yourself some leverage.
“Give me a lever long enough. And a prop strong enough. I can single-handedly move the world.” — ARCHIMEDES
The way to give yourself leverage is to associate not changing with pain. Set your standards of what is and is not acceptable to you from now on.
The ultimate pain is knowing that you have failed to live up to your own standards, that your life is not as you would like it to be or indeed that you know it could be.
Interrupt the Limiting Pattern
All the motivation in the world and the desire to change will be worthless unless you change your approach to life.
If your approach to life has got you nowhere in the past, then adding motivation alone to it will not create change.
You need to break the patterns of behavior that have been limiting you in the past.
Create a new, Empowering Alternative
A very obvious example here is that if you have had enough of working for someone else, living their dream, then start your own home business online opportunity.
Start dreaming your own dreams and working on them.
Set your own (realistic) goals and focus on achieving them.
Celebrate each step on your road to achieving your goals and you will feel empowered to keep going.
Condition the new Pattern until it is Consistent
Get in the habit of doing something every day that will bring you closer to your goals. Acknowledge your efforts each day and congratulate yourself.
Doing it consistently every day will reinforce the pattern and your brain will come to see the behavior as leading to pleasurable results.
This is the reason that many internet marketers feel that they do not do a lot of work. Because they have learnt to associate pleasure with their daily routine, they enjoy working.
Test it
Imagine feeling like you did in the past before you started to work towards your own dreams.
Imagine feeling frustrated, unmotivated or without a sense of purpose.
Notice if imagining this makes you feel the need to revert to your old behavior or if it would cause you to keep up your new patterns of behavior.
If it is the latter, then your conditioning is complete.
If not – go back to step one and repeat the exercise making sure you understand each step.
One great piece of advice on creating change is to find people who have made lasting changes in their lives and model yourself on them.
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Make Instant Changes to Succeed in a Home Business online Opportunity
As discussed in my last article, the way to effect change in our lives is to link pain to the old behavior and link pleasure to the behavior we want to adopt.
So how do we apply this to our efforts to earn money form home with a home business online opportunity?
We should associate pain with working for others for little reward, lots of commuting and little time spent with our family. We should then associate pleasure with setting up our own home business online opportunity, where we can build our own dream and put our efforts to work for our self.
To effect the change quickly we must believe we can change now. Do not wait for the perfect moment or the perfect conditions. Decide to change now.
How many times have you heard people say – I will start the diet tomorrow, Monday, next week or after the holidays? Why not right now? If you were seriously committed to your decision you would not wait a minute.
The second belief we must have is that we are solely responsible for our own change – not anybody else.
Anthony Robbins tells us there are three specific beliefs about responsibility that one must have in order to create long term change.
1. We must believe that something must change – not could, should or ought to but must.
2. We must believe that “I must change it”. We have to see the source of the change as ourselves. It is our responsibility.
3. We have to believe “I can change it”. Without believing that the change is possible, there is no chance of making the change.
Our brains are very complex structures, capable of very complex processes. It forms associations of pain or pleasure with things that have happened to us in the past. For instance if you burn your hand, it associates that with pain and you will avoid burning yourself again.
Many of these associations are designed to protect us. However it can also create associations that prevent us from being successful.
For instance if we fail and it causes us hurt, our brain may protect us from experiencing that pain again.
We can also have negative associations to wealth brought about by their upbringing or culture. They associate it with greed, shallowness or immorality.
They can be more powerful that the pleasure we associate with wealth and can create confusion in your brain.
This can often give us mixed results in our home business online opportunity.
In my next article I will discuss how to change these associations our brain has made in the past to enable us to create effective long term change.
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Controlling Pleasure and Pain Will Enable you to Successfully Earn Money Form Home
People keep trying to change the behavior instead of dealing with the cause behind it.
Instead understanding and utilising the forces of pain and pleasure will allow you to create lasting changes and improvements.
Why do people procrastinate? Because they believe that taking action now would be more painful than putting it off.
What stops them starting an new business, diet, home business online opportunity etc? They know that doing these things will ultimately bring them pleasure.
Yet they put it off because their fears are greater in their mind than the pleasure of seizing the opportunity.
For many the fear of loss is actually greater than the desire to succeed. They will not risk losing money they have to earn substantially more.
Or indeed they will not risk failing in an effort to earn money form home. As long as they do not try they have not failed. The result unfortunately is that they definitely will not succeed either and in that there is a failure they are ignoring.
We need to understand the concepts of pain and pleasure and use them to our advantage instead of having them rule us.
We constantly weigh up the pain and pleasure associated with our actions. Has it got a pleasurable outcome, but we avoid the pain of getting there? Or is it something you would derive pleasure from doing but would lead to pain eventually?
Likewise when doing an internet marketing campaign, we need to create an association of pleasure in the mind of our target audience in relation to the product we are selling.
Convincing them that it will bring them pleasure will be a major influence in their decision to buy.
When in business however, like a home business online opportunity, we need to harness the effects of pleasure and pain to lead us to success.
What we link pain to and what we link pleasure to shapes our destiny.
Anthony Robbins
We need to link pleasure to those activities which we need to do in order to make positive changes in our lives.
In a similar way, if we link pain to a behavior we are trying to stop we will avoid doing it. We must do this consistently every day in order to change our thinking permanently.
A powerful example is the use of drugs. Those that get addicted see the short term pleasure. Those that never try them associate them with the pain and suffering they cause.
Our emotions drive us instead of our intellect. We reach for a bar of chocolate because we have linked pleasure to it which overrides our intellect telling us it is bad for us.
We need to direct our responses to pain and pleasure. Otherwise we are continually reacting to our environment. Be proactive, not reactive when it comes to our success.
Make a plan for your own life – do not let life be something that happens to you.
The imagined pain and effort of taking the first step is well rewarded with the pleasure of success.
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Master Decision Making in Your Home Business Online Opportunity
Man is born to live and not to prepare to live
Boris Pasternak
Do you remember the Y2K computer bug that never materialised, the US Supreme Court decision in favor of George W Bush in a split decision over the Presidential election, the launch of Playstation 2, the end of the dot com bubble?
Does not seem that long ago does it? Yet it was ten years ago, the year 2000.
Looking back on the start of the millennium, where did you thing you would be today, ten years on? Is the reality anywhere close?
If you have achieved your dreams, then congratulations. Otherwise, you need to make the decision today that the next ten years will be different because the next ten years will go just as quickly as the last ten.
Now is the time to effect the change, not in ten years time when it is too late.
Ask yourself:
How am I going to live today in order to create the tomorrow I’m committed to?
Anthony Robbins
You have to decide what results you are committed to and the kind of person you are committed to becoming.
It’s in your moments of decision that your destiny is shapedAnthony Robbins
Decisions lead to actions. Even if you do not make a decision, you in fact have made a decision. That decision is to allow circumstances rather than yourself to dictate your destiny.
Take back control of your life. Become genuinely committed to change, not just interested in it.
Set standards on what you consider acceptable behaviour from yourself and from others and stay committed to those standards no matter what goes on around you.
Don’t make excuses for not sticking to your standards. Your past is just that, you can decide your future regardless of what happened in your past. Your past is not an excuse for not achieving your dreams.
You have the power of decision to make a change. Don’t complain about something, make the decision that this situation is no longer acceptable to you and decide to change it. Then and only then will it change.
The power of change is within each and every one of us, whatever background we may be from. How badly do you want to change?
People from a privileged background do not always achieve while many achieve against great odds. It is not how you start out that matters but the decisions you make along the way.
Many of us do not change because we fear that we may fail, or that they do not know how to change. However the important decision is the one to make the change.
Decide to change, take action, continuously review what you have done and tweak your actions until you are achieving the results you desire.
So if it is all so easy, why is everyone not successful with their Internet marketing promotion?
The problem is that while many think they are making a decision, they are merely making a wish list. It is something they would like to do rather than being actually committed to.
Committing to a decision actually brings clarity which will in turn will enlighten your path to success.
Practice making decisions, the more you make the better you will get at it and you will realise that you actually are in control of your life not the other way around. You will look forward to challenges and see them as opportunities.
Life will not always give you the perfect conditions to achieve your goals but if are committed to your dream you will find a way of using the cards you are dealt. Waiting for the ideal conditions may mean you never decide to start anything such as a home business online opportunity.
The three decisions that control your destiny are:
1. Your decisions about what to focus on.
2. Your decisions about what things mean to you.
3. Your decisions about what to do to
If you control these three decisions, then you can control your destiny.
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Awaken Your Dreams and Empower Them To Earn Money Form Home
Do you remember when you were young and the dreams you had? The younger you were the better the dreams and the more convinced you were that you would grow up to achieve them.
You left school or college convinced that you would make a difference, that you would leave your mark on the world.
Unfortunately for many, the daily grind and routines of life have dampened their desire to achieve their dreams.
They are left feeling that their life does not matter, that the events in the world are controlling them.
They have lost that sense of certainty that they had when they were younger. It is that sense of certainty according to Tony Robbins in his book, Awaken the Giant Within, that creates the winner’s edge.
His mission in life is to help all who are willing to restore the dream within and make it real.
Like Anthony Robbins, I believe that there is a purpose in life. We are all here to contribute to making the universe a better place. Otherwise life has no meaning and the danger is that in years to come we look back and think of what might have been.
For of all sad words of tongues or pen the saddest are these: It might have been…
John Greenleaf Whittier
Unfortunately by then it will be too late and that must be the saddest thing of all to grow old and feel you wasted a life because there are no second chances. This is it. This is life, not a dress rehearsal!
The good news is that all the resources we need to change our lives for the better already lie within us, just waiting for us to make the decision to use them to create lasting change.
Anthony Robbins, in his book Awaken the Giant Within gives us three elementary yet powerful principles of change that you and I can use immediately to change our lives.
These principles will work equally well in your personal life, your home business online opportunity, your Internet marketing promotion, or any opportunity which helps you earn money form home.
Stop accepting or settling. Decide what is no longer acceptable to you or that you will no longer tolerate. Write down the things that you aspire to.
Think of heroes and heroines of history that decided what was no longer acceptable to them, like Rosa Parks when in the moment she refused to give up her seat for a white man changed the course of history forever, making the world a better place for all.
Step 2 – Change your limiting beliefs
Raising your standards will be a futile exercise if you do not believe you can meet them. Without changing your beliefs you will sabotage your efforts to attain your new standards.
Changing an organization, a company, a country—or a world—begins with the simple step of changing yourself.
Anthony Robbins
Think of the obstacles people like Gandhi met. Only an unquavering belief kept him committed to his goals when a less committed person would have given up.
Empowering beliefs—this sense of certainty—is the force behind any great success throughout history
Anthony Robbins
Anthony Robbins tells us that the best strategy is to find a role model who has already achieved the results you desire and tap into their knowledge. Don’t waste time re-inventing the wheel.
Learn, not only how they do things but also how they think and what their core beliefs are because this is what makes them the success they are.
And once you have learned, do not forget to put into action, because without action there is no progress.
Over my next articles I will be looking at mastering the five areas of your life that impact us the most:, emotional, physical, relationships, financial and time.
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