Archive for November, 2009
Make Them Happy To Do What You Want While You Earn Money Form Home
Pointing out the benefits of a particular course of action to others, make it far more likely for them to be happy about the route that needs to be taken.
Merely asking them to embark on a particular course of action will have a high chance of failure if they do not think there is something in it for them.
Take for instance children. One of the most popular discipline techniques in use at the moment is that of reward charts. This is where the child has a reward chart, where stickers are put on each time a task you require of them is performed.
Once a certain number of stickers are collected then they get a treat. In other words, they are getting rewarded for their good work, thus giving them far more of an incentive to complete the tasks.
You can also reward by giving the other person a feeling of importance. I use this tactic with my eldest. When I ask him to do certain tasks, I let him know that I am asking him as his sister is too small to be able to do it. His feelings of great importance make it far more likely that he will oblige.
These tactics work equally well with adults as well as children, so applying them to your Internet marketing promotion will increase your effectiveness as a team leader.
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Don’t Give Them a Mountain to Climb in Your Internet Marketing Promotion
Most of us when faced with a mammoth task can’t see our way through and give up. We don’t feel we can be successful as the mountain is too high to climb.
The same can happen when you are pointing out errors to others in their Internet marketing promotion. If all you do is point out their errors, then they will feel overwhelmed and give up. They feel that there is far too much to correct to achieve the success they are looking for.
People in general want to be successful at what they do, so if they can’t see a possibility of that happening they will give up.
What an effective leader needs to do is show them that while there may be a fault, their good work far outweighs it and thus small adjustments are all that is required to correct the fault.
This leaves the other person feeling that they are well capable of achieving the success they desire. Their determination to continue is not diminished and they may well even be even more incentivised as you are showing them that you believe that success is possible for them in their home business online opportunity.
If you are generous with your encouragement, making the other person know you have faith in their ability to excel, that they have a talent, then as Dale Carnegie, says in his book, How to Win Friends and Influence People,
he will practice until dawn comes in the window in order to excel
Remember it is very easy to find fault, flaws seem far easier to see than the amount of thought, work and effort that had gone into a particular piece of work. The challenge of an effective leader is to encourage the good work, make the fault seem easily correctable and maintain the other persons desire to succeed
The learner always begins by finding fault, but the scholar sees positive merit in everything
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Why a Good Reputation is Important in a Home Business Online Opportunity
The average person can be led readily if you have his or her respect and if you show that you respect that person for some kind of ability.
In other words, if you want to improve some aspect of a person, you should act as if that person already has that particular trait as one of his/her outstanding characteristics.
It is often said of children that their placing within their family has a bearing on how much they go on to achieve later in life. The first are hard workers, sensible, will probably end up in a good secure job. Middle children have the reputation of being the slightly wild ones not very focused, while the youngest has the reputation of being more likely to become an entrepreneur.
How much of this is down to the positioning of the child in the family or to parents mistakenly labeling children from an early age. Are they just living up to reputations created for them by others?. The eldest constantly being told that his good behavior will be emulated by his younger siblings, the middle child being largely ignored and the youngest usually the one with the most attention, getting the praise and self confidence necessary to live life to its fullest.
Remember, when doing your Internet marketing promotion, give others a good reputation to live up to, the chances are they will make great efforts to prove that your faith in them was well placed. You are in effect letting them know that they can do it, and armed with this self confidence, they are far more likely to succeed.
For more great tips and advice on becoming an effective leader of an home business online opportunity, see my earlier articles and videos.
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Ensure Your Followers Success in Your Home Business Online Opportunity
The number one motivator in getting someone to take action towards a desired result is showing them appreciation. People crave sincere recognition of their unique talents and attributes.
However many people throughout their early lives are made feel like failures by the very people that are meant to equip them for life.
Teachers and parents who criticise instead of praising lead a child to feel like he/she is good at nothing. These children start off life lacking two very valuable resources, self esteem and self confidence. Unfortunately this child or young adult who is made to feel like this will ultimately live ‘up’ to the words of the teacher.
Contrast this instead to a child that gets encouragement and praise. They will go on to believe in themselves and to do great things.
In How to Win Friends and Influence People, Dale Carnegie, gives us the example of a ten year boy from Naples many, many years ago. He loved to sing but his teacher totally discouraged him, even telling him he couldn’t sing.
His mother however, despite being a poor peasant woman never gave up on him. She went without the basics of life so she could pay for singing lessons for him. Her reward was seeing her son becoming the greatest and most famous opera singer of his age, Enrico Caruso.
Had his mother agreed with his teacher the outcome may have been very different and the world would have lost out on a great talent.
Many times in your home business online opportunity, you will encounter people who may seem slow to learn the concepts of Internet marketing promotion. Resist the desire to rush in with criticism. Praise whatever they are doing right. Remember, “praise is like sunlight to the warm human spirit; we cannot flower and grow without it”*
Make the praise specific to what they have done, this makes it sincere. Insincere praise or praise just for the sake of praise is not the same thing at all.
Just like that poor boy in Naples all those years ago, those hesitant early starters may turn into bright shining stars of Internet Marketing Promotion.
abilities wither under criticism; they blossom under encouragement*
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*Jess Lair, I Ain’t much Baby – But I’m All I Got.
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No Failures in Your Home Business Online Opportunity
Sometimes unfortunately in life circumstances arise where we have to let people down. A time may come when for one reason or another we have no further need for their services. This is often unavoidable. However we need to do it in a way that allows them to walk away feeling appreciated and not useless.
Do it in such a way that allows them to save face and continue on with their dignity intact. This leaves the door open for them to renew the relationship with you again at a future date when circumstances may change.
An example maybe if a follower of your home business online opportunity may have to quit for personal reasons. Before they leave, make sure they know how much you appreciated having them and how well they were doing. Do not be tempted to say something like ‘good riddance’ or let them feel they were not so valuable that they would not be missed.
This approach means they will look forward to returning to your team when circumstances change, not dread it so much that they avoid you at all costs. You will not lose them needlessly to someone else. It is always a good idea not to burn your bridges.
When dealing with my children in the presence of their friends, I am always very careful that if one needs reprimanding that it is done in such a way that they do not lose face in front of their friends. No punishment I could give would be worse than that. If it is a serious issue I take them aside quietly to another room so their friends do not hear what I am saying. They can then go back to play without having lost their status among the group.
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